When I gave birth to my first baby, she looked so fragile that I thought I could easily break her bones. My husband, recognising my apprehension, took on the role of caring for her, feeding her, and bathing her. He did the same with the rest of our children. This has led me to jokingly tell my children that it will be their father, rather than me, who will stay with them to provide support when they have babies. I would like to point out at the outset that my husband is very